From Soul-tie to Soulmate: A Testimony of God’s Hand in My Love Story

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By Michelle Pierre

A Journey Away from God

God has been with me since the very beginning, and I have many testimonies to share. However, I would like to share this specific one.

In total transparency, I was in a situationship/soul-tie relationship from 2014–2022. For those who don’t know, a situationship is being romantically involved with someone but not exclusively. During that period, I was in a dark place and far from God. I was mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained! I entered a season of spiritual drought because of my fleshly ways and disobedience.

To be totally clear, I was born and raised in the church. I was well aware that I was living in sin, but I did not feel conviction—or when I did, I was able to ignore it because I was not spiritually grounded and rooted in Christ. The deeper I fell into sin, the further away I felt from God. I was living in my flesh as I wanted.

However, I felt empty, emotionless, desperate, hopeless, unloved, lonely—the list goes on. I say all these things with great emphasis. I remember hearing God’s voice over and over saying, “If you continue down this sinful path, you will die.” That scared me, and I was so tired of being far from God.

A New Beginning

Fast forward to October 2022, when I attended a church I was invited to after going to a women’s ministry retreat. My life was not the same afterward. My spiritual lens became clear, and I began to have the desire to live righteously, break free from bondage, and walk in obedience.

I started attending the church regularly and became truly serious about my journey with Christ. I did not want to live in sin anymore, and I didn’t want to die and hear these words from God:

“And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.” — Matthew 7:23 (KJV)

I was searching for something that only God could give—eternal peace.

Breaking the Soul Tie

During that season—my new walk with Christ—God revealed to me that I was in fact in a soul tie, and the only way to break free was through prayer and denouncing everything in my life that set itself higher than the Word of God. So, I prayed and prayed.

On April 18, 2023, God revealed vividly in a dream who my husband was going to be. I remember seeing him, and everyone around us was happy—it was a celebration, and people were saying, “Congratulations, I’m so happy for you!”

In my dream, I was also looking at my life in a book. God said to me, “If you follow Me wholeheartedly, then you will receive what your heart desires.” I remember waking up and writing the dream in my journal. Afterwards, I continued my journey with Christ.

A Divine Connection

One day, on May 28, 2023, my cousin’s boyfriend came to me while we were at the beach celebrating my cousin’s birthday. He said, “Michelle, I have a friend I want to introduce you to.”

I automatically said, “I’m not interested.” I said that because I was enjoying being alone and just serving Christ. In this new season, I felt love, happiness, joy, peace, and the opposite of what the enemy used to tell me.

WOW! I was finally free from that soul tie, and I could breathe again.

Shortly after telling my cousin’s boyfriend I wasn’t interested, I heard God’s voice say, “Just give it a chance.” So, I ended up telling him, “Okay, you can give me his number.”

Another major thing to remember is that this wasn’t the first time my cousin’s boyfriend mentioned his friend. In fact, he had been trying to connect us for a few years, but this was the first time I paid attention and said “yes.”

Two of my close cousins had even met him before me and were thinking about playing matchmaker—unbeknownst to them that someone else had the same idea!

When God’s Plan Unfolded

After receiving his number, I reached out to him the next day, and we spoke on the phone for three hours, just talking about our childhood, beliefs, and interests. I remember not wanting to hang up and wanting to stay on the phone the entire night—which was big for me because I’m not typically a phone person.

Little did I know, this was the beginning of something new. A week later, we decided to meet in person at the park. We walked around for hours just laughing and talking.

Fast forward to January 21, 2024—after eight months of dating—he asked me to marry him in front of all my family and friends. My sister-in-law said to me, “Michelle, this is the man from your dream—just as you described.”

Yes, he was! The details in my dream matched perfectly.

God’s Promise Fulfilled

When someone asks me to describe my relationship, I always say three things:

1. Safety – because I feel safe to open my heart.

2. Healthy – because we are both emotionally healthy and mature.

3. Natural – because it feels just right.

I’m not forcing someone to love me; we have a natural connection, share the same sense of humor, and most importantly, this is where God wants us to be.

Now, fast forward to today—we are married and have a beautiful 3-month-old baby girl named Rae.

God is faithful, a way maker, omnipresent, and simply amazing. There are not enough words to describe our Almighty God. I give Him thanks for all He has done for me and my family.

We will forever serve the Lord! AMEN!

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